Kanani has asked me to name five things I’m proud of about myself. At first I was hesitant to respond, because Iowegians are generally averse to saying anything that might be construed as bragging. I am much more skilled at self-deprecation; better to knock myself down before anyone else can, right? A therapist would have some observations regarding that behavior, yes.
However, I enjoyed reading her list and figured the least I could do is respond in kind, especially after she called me a writer and an advocate for pork products. Flattery will get you everywhere! So here we go.
- I know who I am, and I know myself well enough to accept what I can’t change about myself. Also, I’m secure enough to tell people to go jump if they try to change me. It may have taken 30-odd years, but I’m there.
- Acceptance doesn’t mean I’ve stopped trying to learn (or to be a better person). After years of lazily playing the piano pieces I already know, I’ve taken on a new Joplin rag. So far it’s winning, but I will eventually claim victory. After that, I will learn another new piece, and another. Knitting is another project on the near-term docket. I’d like to learn enough to contribute to afghans for Afghans without shame.
- I’ve found a profession that I’m pretty good at, and although I can’t take all the credit for how my career has unfolded, I did know enough to work with, not against, the good fortune and lucky breaks that have come my way.
- Little stuff delights me. Not long ago I looked out the kitchen window to see the first lightning bug of the season, which made me gasp aloud. At that moment, a firefly was a better gift than a Coach purse or tickets to the Super Bowl. These few weeks later, it still is.
- I had the good sense to recognize what a special person my sweetheart is, the courage to chart (or not chart) an unknown course to be with him, and the fortitude to stick out the rocky parts. Sometimes the flying leap for love turns out well. This one sure has.
My customary shyness prevents me from asking anyone else to name five things, but if you feel moved to do it, let me know, because I want to read them!
4 comments:
""I am much more skilled at self-deprecation; better to knock myself down before anyone else can, right?""
Oh, not as skilled as I am :)
Why is it so hard to think of the good stuff about ourselves? I think you've come up with a fabulous list!
Come join Lopsided Mom and me (jkd1199) on Ravelry.com for knitting.It's fabulous!
Dave, you just listed one of the things you're proud of -- four to go!
As for Ravelry, I need to learn to purl first. Attempts so far have been unacceptable.
Yay knitting. Let me know if I can help! I've been teaching some of the students I work with so they can make squares for Warm Up America. Maybe if we can find some non-acrylic yarn here we'll do Afghans for Afghans next!
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