February 22, 2009

Band-aid solution

A few weeks ago, during a girls’ night of gabbing over Mexican food, a friend asked me whether Sidney and I had run into any problems as an interracial couple. The question brought me up short, but not because it was intrusive or uncomfortable; it wasn’t. I was flummoxed because I couldn’t recall one instance where the difference in color was an issue.

I continued to think about it after that evening but still couldn’t come up with any stories of outrage. Sometimes people seem surprised that we’re together, but hell, I would be too; we’ve got a bit of the Mutt and Jeff about us.

Today, however, I may have stumbled across something. A swipe from an overly playful cat sliced my finger open, and I needed a bandage. Not very long ago, a flesh-colored band-aid (or crayon, for that matter) meant one color -- a color that didn’t come close to matching a large portion of the world’s population. Now, though, there are band-aids that match my sweetie’s skin. And that’s all I could find in our medicine cabinet.

I wrapped the Band-Aid Perfect Blend Deep around my melanin-challenged flipping-off finger and started my day. Not much of a tale of woe, but it’s more than I had yesterday. Someone get me a support group!

5 comments:

loquita said...

I loved this, what a great example of the scope of your "issues" as an interracial couple. :-D

LopsidedMom said...

In an effort to avoid cluttering our house with My Little Pony and Hot Wheels BandAids, I keep a stash of plain neon ones...I'm sure there's a joke in there somewhere.

The Mrs. said...

go for the nemo bandaids, they dont match anyones skin and are such a conversation starter.

Bette said...

Now that the person most likely to protest is away, I'm shopping here for my bandages. Hmm, the bacon or the sushi?

LopsidedMom said...

No way! I lived 4 blocks from Archie McPhees when we were up in Seattle. I love that place!